Incorporate growth mindset principles into everyday activities to foster a positive attitude towards learning and unleash the full potential of K-8th graders. Excellerate Learning Studio utilizes the Learning Framework – the Four Learning Domains – based on cutting-edge research in learning psychology, science, and technology. Students develop values from the growth mindset and metacognition, applying them to group core sessions or 1:1 sessions. The program promotes goal setting, facing challenges, and productive struggle, empowering students to grow and overcome obstacles. Excellerate is dedicated to nurturing growth mindset through personalized coaching and resources, ensuring a brighter future for children. Foster a growth mindset and witness your child thrive.

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Introduction to Growth Mindset – What Is A Growth Mindset?

As a parent, you want to see your child succeed, both academically and personally. But have you ever considered that the way they think about themselves and their abilities plays a huge role in their success? That’s where the concept of a growth mindset comes in. By understanding and embracing this mindset, you can help your child develop the skills and attitude they need to thrive in school and beyond.

What Is A Growth Mindset?

As a parent, you want to see your child succeed, both academically and personally. But have you ever considered that the way they think about themselves and their abilities plays a huge role in their success? That’s where the concept of a growth mindset comes in, and by understanding and embracing this mindset, you can help your child develop the skills and attitude they need to thrive in school and beyond.

So, what exactly is a growth mindset? Simply put, it’s the belief that our abilities and intelligence can be developed through hard work, dedication, and persistence. Children with a growth mindset see challenges as opportunities to learn and grow, rather than as threats to their abilities. On the other hand, a fixed mindset is the belief that our abilities and intelligence are fixed and cannot be improved. Children with a fixed mindset tend to avoid challenges, fearing failure and the possibility of being labeled as unintelligent.

Let’s watch this video that will help you understand this concept:

Growth Mindset vs. Fixed Mindset

Research has shown that cultivating a growth mindset can have a significant impact on a child’s academic success. When children believe that their efforts can improve their abilities, they are more likely to engage in challenging tasks and persist in the face of difficulties. They also tend to be more motivated to learn, as they see learning as a way to improve their abilities and achieve their goals.

So, what can you do as a parent to help your child develop a growth mindset? The first step is to encourage a love of learning. This means praising your child’s effort and progress, rather than just their natural abilities. It means embracing mistakes as opportunities for growth and encouraging your child to take risks and try new things. You can also model a growth mindset by sharing your own struggles and efforts to improve in different areas of your life.

Another important aspect of fostering a growth mindset is providing opportunities for your child to learn and grow. This could mean enrolling them in challenging classes or extracurricular activities that stretch their abilities. It could also mean encouraging them to set goals and work towards them, celebrating their successes along the way. (If you need some ideas on how to help your child set goals, please refer to this article: Unlock the Power of Goal Setting with Your Child)

Ultimately, developing a growth mindset is about helping your child see themselves as capable, resilient learners who can succeed through hard work and dedication. By embracing this mindset, your child can become more motivated, engaged, and confident in their ability to learn and grow.

How to Start Building a Growth Mindset through Activities with your Kindergarteners – 3rd Graders

Helping young children develop a growth mindset is of utmost importance for their future success and overall well-being. Through the cultivation of a growth mindset, children not only become resilient but also learn to embrace challenges, ultimately fostering a belief in their ability to learn and grow.

Here are some effective strategies that parents can implement when working with kindergarteners up to 3rd graders to foster a growth mindset in their children:

Make learning fun and engaging:

  • Focus on the process, not just the outcome: Celebrate effort, persistence, and willingness to try new things, rather than solely praising finished products or perfect scores.
  • Turn mistakes into learning opportunities: Talk about mistakes as “brain bumps” or chances to grow. Model positive self-talk by saying things like, “This is tricky, but I’m getting better at it!”
  • Make learning playful: Use games, songs, and stories to teach new concepts. This makes learning enjoyable and helps them make connections.

Use language that fosters growth:

  • Use “yet” instead of “not yet”: Instead of saying “You can’t do it,” say “You can’t do it yet, but with practice, you can!” This emphasizes that with effort, anything is possible.
  • Talk about effort and strategies: Instead of praising intelligence, praise their effort and the strategies they used to succeed. This encourages them to focus on what they can control.
  • Model growth mindset language: Share your own stories of overcoming challenges and learning new things. Talk about how your brain grows with effort.

Create a supportive environment:

  • Celebrate effort and improvement: Recognize and celebrate their progress, no matter how small. This reinforces their belief in their ability to learn and grow.
  • Offer choices and ownership: Give them choices in their learning and activities. This helps them feel empowered and responsible for their progress.
  • Limit comparing others: Focus on individual progress and encourage learning from mistakes without comparing to others.

Additional resources & Activities:


  • “The Dot” by Peter H. Reynolds
  • “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success” by Carol Dweck (adapted for children)

Growth Mindset Word Cloud:

  • Brainstorm words and phrases associated with a growth mindset (e.g., effort, challenge, mistakes as learning opportunities, persistence, brain growth).
  • Use an online word cloud generator, such as Mentimeter to create a visual representation of their ideas.
  • Print out the word cloud and post it where you and your child can see as a reminder and conversation starter.

Conduct a “Fixed vs. Growth Mindset” Scavenger Hunt:

  • Hide slips of paper around the house with statements that represent either a fixed or growth mindset. For example, “I’m not good at math” (fixed) or “I can learn anything if I try” (growth).
  • Have your child find the statements and discuss the difference between the two mindsets.
  • Encourage them to rewrite the fixed mindset statements into growth mindset ones.

Write a Growth Mindset Story:

  • Ask your child to write a story about a character who faces a challenge and overcomes it using a growth mindset.
  • They can draw inspiration from their own experiences or create a fictional character.
  • Discuss the character’s thoughts, feelings, and actions throughout the story, focusing on how they embrace effort, learn from mistakes, and persevere.

Obstacle Course Challenge:

  • Set up a simple obstacle course with physical and mental challenges.
  • Have them complete the course, emphasizing the importance of effort, trying different strategies, and learning from mistakes.
  • Discuss how effort, perseverance, and a growth mindset helped them overcome obstacles.

Remember, fostering a growth mindset is a journey, not a destination. Be patient, consistent, and celebrate every step of the way!

Fun Growth Mindset Activities as a Family for 3rd-5th Graders

Cultivating a growth mindset in students empowers them to embrace challenges, learn from mistakes, and persevere through difficulties. Here are some ways parents can help 3rd through 5th grade students build a growth mindset:

Focus on Effort and Strategies:

  • Shift Praise: Praise effort, strategies, and improvement instead of just results or innate ability. Say things like “Wow, I see you tried three different strategies before solving that problem!” or “It’s great that you didn’t give up even though it was challenging.”
  • Focus on the Process: Guide conversations about learning strategies and progress. Ask questions like “What helped you understand this concept?” or “What will you try differently next time?”
  • Celebrate Mistakes: Reframe mistakes as “learning opportunities” and emphasize the chance to grow and improve. Talk about your own mistakes and how you learned from them.

Encourage Challenges and Learning:

  • Present Challenges as Opportunities: Talk about how challenges help the brain grow and become stronger. Encourage them to see difficulties as chances to learn and improve.
  • Help Set Achievable Goals: Work with your child to set challenging but achievable goals that they can progress towards with effort.
  • Celebrate Risk-Taking: Applaud them for trying new things, even if they don’t succeed initially. Encourage them to step outside their comfort zone and explore new interests.

Model a Growth Mindset:

  • Share Your Own Challenges: Openly discuss your own learning experiences and challenges. Share how you struggled, learned, and persevered.
  • Talk About Growth: Use terms like “my brain is growing” or “I’m getting better at this with practice.” Demonstrate that intelligence and abilities are not fixed but can develop with effort.
  • Embrace Feedback: Show positive reactions to constructive feedback and use it as an opportunity to learn and improve.

Create a Supportive Environment:

  • Encourage Open Communication: Create a safe space where your child feels comfortable admitting mistakes, asking for help, and discussing challenges.
  • Limit Comparisons: Focus on individual growth and avoid comparing your child to others. Encourage them to learn from others but stay focused on their own journey.
  • Offer Choices and Ownership: Give them choices in their learning and activities. Encourage them to take ownership of their learning and set their own goals.
  • Provide Resources: Share books, articles, and websites that teach about growth mindset concepts. Consider using growth mindset activities and games together.

Additional Resources and Activities:


  • “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success” by Carol Dweck (adapted for children)
  • “The Growth Mindset Coach” by Annie Brock and Heather Hundley

Failure Museum:

  • Collect objects that represent past “failures” or challenges students have overcome (e.g., a rough draft of a story, a crumpled test paper with a good grade on the retake).
  • Create a “Failure Museum” display where students can share their stories of struggle and growth.
  • This activity emphasizes that mistakes and setbacks are part of the learning journey and can lead to valuable lessons and achievements.

Growth Mindset Bingo:

  • Download the Growth Mindset Bingo Card.
  • Throughout the day, call out situations or actions that exemplify a growth mindset.
  • Your child marks their cards if they observe the mentioned behavior in themselves or others.
  • The first one to get a bingo wins, but the real prize is the reinforcement of positive growth mindset attitudes.

Play the “Challenge Accepted” Game:

  • Find a new activity or skill that your child finds challenging, like juggling, playing a musical instrument, or coding.
  • Set small, achievable goals and encourage them to practice regularly, even if they face setbacks.
  • Celebrate their effort and progress, highlighting how their brain is making new connections, and they’re getting better with each attempt.
  • Use the phrase “Challenge accepted!” as a fun rallying cry to embrace new learning opportunities.

“Famous Failures” Discussion:

  • Research famous people who faced failures and setbacks before achieving success.
  • Discuss how they used a growth mindset to overcome challenges and ultimately achieve their goals.
  • Share your own experiences with failure and how they can learn and grow from them.

Remember, fostering a growth mindset is an ongoing and dynamic process that requires consistent effort and dedication. These transformative activities not only serve as a valuable starting point but also act as the foundation for instilling a positive outlook on learning. Moreover, they should be easily adaptable to suit the unique interests and needs of your students, ensuring a personalized and engaging approach to their growth mindset development. The essential key is to create and maintain a supportive and encouraging environment where students not only feel comfortable taking risks but also actively engage in learning from their mistakes and celebrating their progress.

Engaging Growth Mindset Activities at Home for 5th-8th Graders

Nurturing a growth mindset in your 5th-8th graders is essential for their academic success and overall well-being. It significantly helps students to not only embrace challenges but also learn from mistakes, fostering the development of a lifelong love of learning. Middle school is a crucial time for developing a growth mindset, and parents play a key role in fostering this valuable attitude. Additionally, here are some ways you can help your middle schooler embrace growth and navigate the challenges they face:

Empower Them to Take Ownership:

  • Discuss and set goals together: Collaborate on setting challenging but achievable goals that motivate and guide their learning. Need help with goal setting? Check out this article.
  • Offer choices and encourage self-reflection: Provide opportunities for them to choose learning activities and reflect on their learning process and progress.
  • Help them develop self-advocacy skills: Encourage them to seek help and resources when needed, fostering independence and resilience.

Celebrate Effort and the Learning Process:

  • Shift praise from results to effort and strategies: Instead of saying “You’re so smart,” acknowledge their hard work and specific strategies used to achieve success. Focus on effort and process: Instead of praising solely on results (e.g., “You’re so smart!”), commend effort, strategies, and persistence (e.g., “I see you worked hard on that problem,” “That was a creative way to approach it,” “Keep trying, you’re almost there!”).
  • Reframe mistakes as learning opportunities: Normalize making mistakes and highlight their value in improving understanding and developing new skills. Additionally, help your child view mistakes as stepping stones, not setbacks. Encourage phrases such as “Everyone makes mistakes; that’s how we learn,” and prompt discussions like “What can we learn from this experience?” This constructive approach fosters a growth mindset and resilience in the face of challenges.

Promote Challenge and Resilience:

  • Encourage taking risks and exploring new interests: Help them step outside their comfort zone and embrace challenges as opportunities for growth. Model a growth mindset: Talk openly about your own struggles and how you learn from mistakes. Use phrases like “This is challenging, but I’m learning!” and “I can always get better with practice.”
  • Talk about successful people who overcame obstacles: Share stories of individuals who didn’t give up despite setbacks, showcasing the power of persistence and belief in improvement.
  • Normalize setbacks and focus on effort: Discuss how everyone experiences setbacks, and the importance of bouncing back, learning, and trying again.

Create a supportive environment:

  • Focus on progress, not perfection: Focus on celebrating progress, however small, instead of fixating on perfection.
  • Encourage risk-taking: Encourage your child to try new things, even if they might fail. Remind them that stepping outside their comfort zone helps them grow.
  • Provide support and guidance: Offer help and guidance when needed, but don’t do things for your child they can do themselves. Let them experience the satisfaction of solving problems independently.

Additional Resources and Activities:

Here are some engaging activities to foster a growth mindset in 5th to 8th graders:

Books & Website:

  • “Mindset: The New Psychology of Success” by Carol Dweck,
  • “The Power of Yet” by Carol Dweck and Lisa Eliot,
  •  “Mindshift: Break Through Obstacles and Unlock Your Potential” by Barbara Oakley,
  • “Sometimes you Sometimes You Win–Sometimes You Learn for Teens: How to Turn a Loss into a Win for Teens” by John Maxwell
  • The Mindshift Foundation
  • Big Life Journal
  • Mindsetworks

Creative Activities:

Growth Mindset Comic Strip:
  • Your child can create a comic strip depicting a character facing a challenge and overcoming it through effort and a positive attitude.
  • They can use humor, relatable scenarios, and growth mindset language like “I can learn from this” or “I’m going to keep trying.”
Create a Growth Mindset Vision Board:
  • Have your child gather images, quotes, and words that represent their goals, strengths, and values.
  • Let them arrange these elements on a poster board or digital collage to create a visual reminder of their aspirations and growth potential.
  • Regularly revisit the vision board together to discuss progress and celebrate achievements.

Reflective Activities:

“Yet” Chart:
  • Create a chart with two columns: “Challenges” and “Yet.” You and your child write down current challenges you face in academics, sports, or personal life in the first column.
  • Then, in the “Yet” column, they write positive statements about their potential to overcome those challenges and their future goals.
Growth Mindset Journal:
  • Encourage students to keep a journal where they reflect on their experiences, challenges, and successes.
  • They can write about how they used a growth mindset to overcome difficulties, celebrate their progress, and set goals for the future.
Create a “What Didn’t Go Well” Jar:
  • Encourage your child to write down instances where they faced a setback or made a mistake.
  • Instead of focusing on negativity, have them reflect on what they learned from the experience and how they can approach it differently next time.
  • This helps them develop resilience and see mistakes as opportunities for growth.

Remember, the key is to make these activities not just educational but also fun and engaging. By incorporating growth mindset principles into everyday activities, you can help your 5th-8th graders develop a positive attitude towards learning and achieve their full potential!

I hope these ideas spark your creativity and help you nurture a growth mindset in your young teens!

How Does Excellerate Incorporate Growth Mindset In Our Program?

At Excellerate Learning Studio, our Learning Success Coaches utilize the Learning Framework – the Four Learning Domains. This well-structured framework serves as a crucial guide for students’ personal learning growth. It not only enables them to recognize specific areas of development but also provides coaches with the essential means to support them effectively. Based on cutting-edge research in learning psychology, learning science, and learning technology, this framework equips students with valuable values such as a growth mindset and metacognition. These principles are integrated into our group core sessions and personalized 1:1 sessions, fostering holistic growth and development.

For example, in the Goal Setting domains, students can work on G5 MOTIVATION FROM WITHIN: I can motivate myself. While it is true that other people or awards may add to my motivation, even without those outside things, I am motivated from within by growing myself and overcoming challenges as I learn. Or, S3 GETTING UNSTUCK: When I am stuck with lesson content, I am able to revise my plan and take different approaches to look for ways to get unstuck on my own before jumping right into asking questions and seeking others for help.

One of the personal goals the students can choose from is directly related to the growth mindset. S4. FACING CHALLENGES: I am able to spend time facing challenges and mistakes in positive and productive ways. Instead of getting frustrated or zoning out, I put my effort to understanding and trying different approaches if one doesn’t work. I feel empowered and have a sense of hope that I can grow through my challenges. Then, the coaches support the students to have PRODUCTIVE STRUGGLE by having the student be able to spend time facing challenges and mistakes in a productive way, moving away from “destructive struggle” to “productive struggle.”

No matter where your child stands in their learning journey or how incremental the progress may seem, continuous forward movement ensures boundless growth. Therefore, allow us to assist your child and you in cultivating this crucial social and emotional intelligence. So, reach out to us today and witness remarkable improvement unfold.

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In a world that can often feel fixed and unchangeable, children must cultivate a growth mindset that not only enables them to see possibilities but also recognizes opportunities and a clear path forward. As a parent, you wield the tremendous power to shape not only your child’s perspective but also their attitudes toward learning. This pivotal role involves fostering the development of essential skills, equipping them with the tools they need to not only succeed in school but also thrive beyond the academic realm. Embrace the transformative power of a growth mindset, and observe as your child not only blossoms but also thrives in their educational journey.

By partnering with us, you can foster a passion for learning, exploration, and personal growth in your child that will last a lifetime. With our guidance, your child can continue to develop these skills not just at our learning studio, but also at home.